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001 – 60 Days of Sex

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Eleven years and our marriage had gone through a lot and yet the pain we endured didn’t have to be there forever. So on a fateful day Tony & Alisa began an adventure that would forever change their lives.

Since this first show came out we have had listeners from all over the world take on the 60 Days of Sex Challenge. Many of them have even surpassed us.

What’s even better is that their marriages and the love they have for one another has blossomed.

Get ready as Tony & Alisa share their insights from the 60 Days of Sex Challenge and how you can began your own challenge.

For more advice on how to strengthen your marriage, check out He Zigs, She Zags: Get Your Communication on the Same Path today!

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  1. Well done you guys. I can’t wait for the next one. I picked up a few pointers here in how I need to treat my wife better.

    • Tony & Alisa says:

      Thanks Justin. If it wasn’t for you we wouldn’t be here. Glad we were able to give you some tips this time.

  2. Well done you guys. I can’t wait for the next one. I picked up a few pointers here in how I need to treat my wife better.

    • Tony & Alisa says:

      Thanks Justin. If it wasn’t for you we wouldn’t be here. Glad we were able to give you some tips this time.

  3. Tony & Alisa, I really enjoyed listening to you speak so openly about your marriage. I found myself laughing and relating.
    I love being married and am always looking for new ways to keep it amazing. So, thank you for the new ideas.
    Congrats on your first podcast, it was a success, at least in my book! =)

  4. Tony & Alisa, I really enjoyed listening to you speak so openly about your marriage. I found myself laughing and relating.
    I love being married and am always looking for new ways to keep it amazing. So, thank you for the new ideas.
    Congrats on your first podcast, it was a success, at least in my book! =)

  5. Andy Traub says:

    I just subscribed to the podcast and will listen to the first episode tomorrow. Did you guys work with Cliff to set up your podcast? By the way, take a minute to look into the DISQUS comment system for your blog. It makes it really easy for people to sign in to leave comments b/c they can use their Facebook or Twitter ID’s to log in.

    Great looking site. Talk to you soon I hope.

  6. Andy Traub says:

    I just subscribed to the podcast and will listen to the first episode tomorrow. Did you guys work with Cliff to set up your podcast? By the way, take a minute to look into the DISQUS comment system for your blog. It makes it really easy for people to sign in to leave comments b/c they can use their Facebook or Twitter ID’s to log in.

    Great looking site. Talk to you soon I hope.

  7. Thanks Justin. If it wasn't for you we wouldn't be here. Glad we were able to give you some tips this time.

  8. Glad you were laughing and relating to us and our story. I can say that it brings a smile to my face knowing that there were some ideas in the podcast that you can use in your marriage.

  9. Thanks for subscribing Andy. I hope you enjoy the podcast when you listen to it and we'll talk soon hopefully. We did go through Cliff, The Podcast Answer Man, for help setting up the initial stuff. Justin helped with the rest and I'm learning my way through it. Thanks for pointing us to the DISQUS comment system. As you can see it's up and running nicely. Thanks for the complements on the site. More to do, but we are getting there.

    Talk to you soon.

  10. rcardona13 says:

    Hi Tony and Alisa,

    This was totally amazing. I am getting married in March and I looking forward to many years of marriage knowing how much fun intimacy can be without it feeling like a routine. My fiance is heading out of town tonight and I told him that I am very excited about sharing this with him and we will be listening to it together. I am looking forward to more episodes and hope to share it with my family and friends.

  11. So proud of you guys!
    One, it was great just to hear you guys! Miss you all..
    Two, great first episode. I had to prepare myself a bit to listen, just in case, being that you all are family. But I was not 'shocked or scarred' by any means LOL! You both have very easy listening voices, you two I believe were meant to be together and to do this! It was good to hear both sides of a marriage in conjunction without it sounding prompted or scripted. Great job!

  12. We so appreciate your comments. Congratulations on your upcoming marriage. It's great to hear that you are already making the choice for the intimacy in your marriage to be fun and not routine.

    Thank you for your encouragement and support as your share this with others. Please feel free to suggest topics or other ideas that you would like to hear us talk about.

    Alisa

  13. Amy,

    Glad to know that you weren't shocked or scared. I'm glad that we didn't sound prompted or scripted as we didn't have either, we were just having a conversation (wearing headphones and using microphones). It was a lot of fun and we are looking forward to many more episodes. Please feel free to suggest topics.

    Miss you too!
    Alisa

  14. kaylee wadge says:

    that was awesome! I could totally picture you guys sitting in front of your computers in the garage recording this haha! can't wait to hear the next one :D

  15. Kaylee, I love how you know us so well. Thank you for listening to the podcast and if there are any topics that you would like to hears us speak about please let me know.

    Alisa

  16. Anonymous says:

    Great Tony and Alisa! Debt FREE and totally in love. What more could anyone ask for? :-)

  17. Great job Tony and Alisa. Debt FREE and totally in love! What more could anyone ask for? :-)

  18. Thanks. Being Debt FREE has been a big factor in allowing us to really dig deep in our marriage. Knowing Alisa and myself we would have never been able to go 60 Days if we had a large sum of debt weighing us down.

  19. Way to go you two. What a hard topic to be open about. It's kind of funny that everyone talks about sex, but nobody really wants to talk about it without making jokes about it. With all humor being geared that way, it's hard to really have a true conversation about it. I will be listening to this with my wife.

    It was actually really good to hear another man say that he wasn't sure he could do or wanted to do this. For me, like Tony, I don't always want to spend all the energy necessary to have true intimacy. You'd just like to have sex and that's it. But there's so much that I'm missing. I know there is. I'm just not sure how to get there.

    Thanks for the podcast, keep them coming cause we'll be listening. :-)

  20. Ted – Glad you like the podcast and listening to it with your wife. Alisa and I agree with you that talking about sex in an honest open manner without jokes isn't heard often. Our goal is to continue to talk about sex and intimacy openly so that other married couples can too.

    When Alisa came back to me saying she wanted to go for the 60 Days of Sex I really had to think about it. I'm glad we went through with our 60 days, but my initial reaction wasn't positive even though I brought it up. Ted, one thing I learned and we will discuss in future podcasts is that there is a direct correlation between the amount of energy I put into our marriage and the true intimacy we have together. It's amazing and extraordinary.

    Thanks for listening and if you or your wife has any questions in the future please email them to us. We want to have a listener feedback section in our podcasts.

  21. Vincie DiLorenzo says:

    I'm having my quiet time drinking espresso and enjoying my cookies and thinking this is really good. This can be a difficult topic for married couples to discuss and I commend you both for being so open about it.
    And I do love you guys for doing this.
    Mom

  22. Great job, guys! My wife and I have also seen the benefits of being much more “open” to intimacy in our marriage. And the benefits (emotionally, spiritually and even practically) are remarkable.

  23. Thanks mom. I'm able to be this intimate with Alisa because of the way you and dad have modeled your marriage for all these years, 37 years, is amazing. Alisa and I are blessed to have such wonderful parents.

    Love you too.

  24. Excellent Dustin. It's great to hear that other couples are our there making the effort to have an extraordinary marriage. We are going to get you on to get your input about intimacy and marriage soon. Thanks for all of your support it is appreciated.

  25. Pam Ingold says:

    Woo-hoo! Awesome! So proud of you guys…most of all for being “called” and allowing God to equip you! We have no doubt that He will use you to transform lives!

  26. Pam, thank you for listening to the podcast. You and Ken have been so instrumental in making all of this happen. Through your encouragement and the opportunities that you have provided us we have been able to walk through those doors that God has opened.

  27. Good for you guys – great podcast. I can't wait to hear the next ones. Personally, I think I would cry from joy if my husband asked this of me. I am definitely the high-desire spouse, and his desire is (in my book) much lower.

  28. Bashtree,

    Thank you for listening to our podcast. I think that in every marriage one spouse probably does have a higher desire, in our case it is Tony. I have found that Tony romancing me goes a long way to my desire level increasing. Whether he's leaving me a love note, sending me a quick text, setting up the candles or just giving me an extra special squeeze I feel like I'm being courted and can't help but respond, physically and emotionally.

    Alisa

  29. Just found you guys- and my husband and I are starting out a 30 day challenge and listening to your podcasts. Just wanted to say thanks for your dedication!

  30. Ok, I just came across you (Tony) from a twitter post and decided to check out your website. Seemed interesting so I said okay I’ll checkout your podcast. I always love listening to the first episode. It took me a few clicks to get to episode #1 on your website but boy it was worth it.

    This is the first couples/marriage podcast I’ve ever listened to and I’m hooked. 60 days of sex!!! REALLY! what a way to start a podcast. I’m jumping to episode #2 and can’t wait to share this with my wife.

    • Welcome to the ONE Family Joel. Glad you enjoyed the first show and thank you for mentioning that it took a few clicks. Going to add it to the sidebar for easier access.

      Enjoy episode #2 and all the others.

      Love you guys.

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