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Holy Cow!!! It’s taken some time to get this podcast up, but it’s up. We hope you enjoy listening to us as we discuss our marriage, in-laws, and our 60 Days of Intimacy. Heads up the audio track in the beginning is louder than when we are speaking. It’s something that I’ll work with as we continue to podcast.
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Tony & Alisa are experienced marriage educators, podcasters, and speakers. They specialize in helping time-crunched couples take action and enjoy the sex, love, and commitment they desire in their marriage.
Well done you guys. I can’t wait for the next one. I picked up a few pointers here in how I need to treat my wife better.
Thanks Justin. If it wasn’t for you we wouldn’t be here. Glad we were able to give you some tips this time.
Well done you guys. I can’t wait for the next one. I picked up a few pointers here in how I need to treat my wife better.
Thanks Justin. If it wasn’t for you we wouldn’t be here. Glad we were able to give you some tips this time.
Tony & Alisa, I really enjoyed listening to you speak so openly about your marriage. I found myself laughing and relating.
I love being married and am always looking for new ways to keep it amazing. So, thank you for the new ideas.
Congrats on your first podcast, it was a success, at least in my book! =)
Tony & Alisa, I really enjoyed listening to you speak so openly about your marriage. I found myself laughing and relating.
I love being married and am always looking for new ways to keep it amazing. So, thank you for the new ideas.
Congrats on your first podcast, it was a success, at least in my book! =)
I just subscribed to the podcast and will listen to the first episode tomorrow. Did you guys work with Cliff to set up your podcast? By the way, take a minute to look into the DISQUS comment system for your blog. It makes it really easy for people to sign in to leave comments b/c they can use their Facebook or Twitter ID’s to log in.
Great looking site. Talk to you soon I hope.
I just subscribed to the podcast and will listen to the first episode tomorrow. Did you guys work with Cliff to set up your podcast? By the way, take a minute to look into the DISQUS comment system for your blog. It makes it really easy for people to sign in to leave comments b/c they can use their Facebook or Twitter ID’s to log in.
Great looking site. Talk to you soon I hope.
Thanks Justin. If it wasn't for you we wouldn't be here. Glad we were able to give you some tips this time.
Glad you were laughing and relating to us and our story. I can say that it brings a smile to my face knowing that there were some ideas in the podcast that you can use in your marriage.
Thanks for subscribing Andy. I hope you enjoy the podcast when you listen to it and we'll talk soon hopefully. We did go through Cliff, The Podcast Answer Man, for help setting up the initial stuff. Justin helped with the rest and I'm learning my way through it. Thanks for pointing us to the DISQUS comment system. As you can see it's up and running nicely. Thanks for the complements on the site. More to do, but we are getting there.
Talk to you soon.
Hi Tony and Alisa,
This was totally amazing. I am getting married in March and I looking forward to many years of marriage knowing how much fun intimacy can be without it feeling like a routine. My fiance is heading out of town tonight and I told him that I am very excited about sharing this with him and we will be listening to it together. I am looking forward to more episodes and hope to share it with my family and friends.
So proud of you guys!
One, it was great just to hear you guys! Miss you all..
Two, great first episode. I had to prepare myself a bit to listen, just in case, being that you all are family. But I was not 'shocked or scarred' by any means LOL! You both have very easy listening voices, you two I believe were meant to be together and to do this! It was good to hear both sides of a marriage in conjunction without it sounding prompted or scripted. Great job!
We so appreciate your comments. Congratulations on your upcoming marriage. It's great to hear that you are already making the choice for the intimacy in your marriage to be fun and not routine.
Thank you for your encouragement and support as your share this with others. Please feel free to suggest topics or other ideas that you would like to hear us talk about.
Alisa
Amy,
Glad to know that you weren't shocked or scared. I'm glad that we didn't sound prompted or scripted as we didn't have either, we were just having a conversation (wearing headphones and using microphones). It was a lot of fun and we are looking forward to many more episodes. Please feel free to suggest topics.
Miss you too!
Alisa
that was awesome! I could totally picture you guys sitting in front of your computers in the garage recording this haha! can't wait to hear the next one
Kaylee, I love how you know us so well. Thank you for listening to the podcast and if there are any topics that you would like to hears us speak about please let me know.
Alisa
Great Tony and Alisa! Debt FREE and totally in love. What more could anyone ask for?
Great job Tony and Alisa. Debt FREE and totally in love! What more could anyone ask for?
Thanks. Being Debt FREE has been a big factor in allowing us to really dig deep in our marriage. Knowing Alisa and myself we would have never been able to go 60 Days if we had a large sum of debt weighing us down.
Way to go you two. What a hard topic to be open about. It's kind of funny that everyone talks about sex, but nobody really wants to talk about it without making jokes about it. With all humor being geared that way, it's hard to really have a true conversation about it. I will be listening to this with my wife.
It was actually really good to hear another man say that he wasn't sure he could do or wanted to do this. For me, like Tony, I don't always want to spend all the energy necessary to have true intimacy. You'd just like to have sex and that's it. But there's so much that I'm missing. I know there is. I'm just not sure how to get there.
Thanks for the podcast, keep them coming cause we'll be listening.
Ted – Glad you like the podcast and listening to it with your wife. Alisa and I agree with you that talking about sex in an honest open manner without jokes isn't heard often. Our goal is to continue to talk about sex and intimacy openly so that other married couples can too.
When Alisa came back to me saying she wanted to go for the 60 Days of Sex I really had to think about it. I'm glad we went through with our 60 days, but my initial reaction wasn't positive even though I brought it up. Ted, one thing I learned and we will discuss in future podcasts is that there is a direct correlation between the amount of energy I put into our marriage and the true intimacy we have together. It's amazing and extraordinary.
Thanks for listening and if you or your wife has any questions in the future please email them to us. We want to have a listener feedback section in our podcasts.
I'm having my quiet time drinking espresso and enjoying my cookies and thinking this is really good. This can be a difficult topic for married couples to discuss and I commend you both for being so open about it.
And I do love you guys for doing this.
Mom
Great job, guys! My wife and I have also seen the benefits of being much more “open” to intimacy in our marriage. And the benefits (emotionally, spiritually and even practically) are remarkable.
Thanks mom. I'm able to be this intimate with Alisa because of the way you and dad have modeled your marriage for all these years, 37 years, is amazing. Alisa and I are blessed to have such wonderful parents.
Love you too.
Excellent Dustin. It's great to hear that other couples are our there making the effort to have an extraordinary marriage. We are going to get you on to get your input about intimacy and marriage soon. Thanks for all of your support it is appreciated.
Woo-hoo! Awesome! So proud of you guys…most of all for being “called” and allowing God to equip you! We have no doubt that He will use you to transform lives!
Pam, thank you for listening to the podcast. You and Ken have been so instrumental in making all of this happen. Through your encouragement and the opportunities that you have provided us we have been able to walk through those doors that God has opened.
Good for you guys – great podcast. I can't wait to hear the next ones. Personally, I think I would cry from joy if my husband asked this of me. I am definitely the high-desire spouse, and his desire is (in my book) much lower.
Bashtree,
Thank you for listening to our podcast. I think that in every marriage one spouse probably does have a higher desire, in our case it is Tony. I have found that Tony romancing me goes a long way to my desire level increasing. Whether he's leaving me a love note, sending me a quick text, setting up the candles or just giving me an extra special squeeze I feel like I'm being courted and can't help but respond, physically and emotionally.
Alisa
Just found you guys- and my husband and I are starting out a 30 day challenge and listening to your podcasts. Just wanted to say thanks for your dedication!
Awesome Mia! For finding us, but for going after a 30 days of sex challenge. Keep us posted on your journey. We love hearing how sex challenges go and the impact it has on your marriage.
Cheers.